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How to become a more responsible person?

Posted on: March 14, 2014

最近搬家,发现自己各种utility late fee,然后没想起来提前30天通知land lord,罚了$2000的lease termination fee,另外relocation也是弄得各种紧张,还有三天就要被撵出去了还没找到新的住处,然后又是各种罚钱,以及浪费Google给的relocation benefit。

另外天天上班迟到,和搬家公司约好时间却睡过头,在craigslist上约好别人来买家具结果忘了,然后被发邮件咒traffic accident。

昨天在回家的十字路口仰天长啸——我为什么是这么个不负责任的人??

Is it just me? 我tmd自从来美国,交了不知多少罚款了,每次都是掏钱息事宁人,然后难受一晚上第二天就忘光了。Also, I’m bad at negotiation,一要跟人argue我就浑身难受,usually just choose to settle just to make ppl like me. Will it ever change? If so, what can I do to change? 

I feel like 12 or something. Totally irresponsible. And I sometimes cry at confrontation.

I’m open to suggestion..

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9 Responses to "How to become a more responsible person?"

我也这样,然后天天被我老婆骂不够aggressive,是不是developer都这样。共勉共勉。

老婆aggressive就行啊!家里有一个操心的就够啦 🙂

Go to toastmasters

那个是锻炼speak能力的吧,和这个沾不上边儿

The best way to avoid these troubles is to setup advanced reminder, and finish it on time, don’t give yourself any excuses, not even a single one

有了几次惨痛的教训,记忆深刻后,内心会有紧迫感吧。

哈,姑娘你好。我也是工作之后时不时的会忘了一些东西,被多扣税,买票被多刷钱。一开始我都不太敢(懒得)argue,后来看我gf和人讲话讲的流畅自如,下定决心开始自己argue,每次搞完之后,成功了当然很开心。失败了也比没argue强。
上班跑程序跑的无聊,偶尔想起来搜搜leetcode,看到博主这个博客,解法不一定是最好的,但一定是我见过最接地气的leetcode相关博客了 LOL

哈哈哈,好多人看我解法没啥感觉,倒是日记反响强烈。谢谢支持哈

常常会有相同的烦恼,虽然表达方法稍有不同:“求靠谱。”
不过我想不用担心太多。有想改变的意识了,就会慢慢变的。反过来讲,也没法强求。
至少自己现在比大学期间靠谱了吧……大概……

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